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My Very First Web Page Has Been Created Especially Just
to Search for You
--My One and Only Child--
My Birthson
The purpose of today, for me, is to create a "Website for You"--and to
get it on the Internet to give you an avenue to find me if you wish.
I want you to know that I am not hiding from you and never have--I am
here for you if you or your adoptive family needs me in any way...emotionally,
historically, medically, or for any other reason. Or, if you are just curious as
to your Birth Heritage or what lead to your adoption.
The purpose of this Home Page isn't to purge my guilt or to interfere in
your life...but it is to let you know that you are very much loved by me and by
many members of your Birthfamily. Adoption affects all family members and I want
you to know that you have a whole Birthfamily that misses you and needs to know
that you are well and happy...and we need to know that you have had a good home.
Please know I love you with all my heart and I always have--and I pray
that this Website "turns" into a path for you to find your way back to your
other Home...your Birth Home. TO CONTACT ME, PLEASE USE EMAIL
BELOW.
THE FOLLOWING is some of the information I have that I can share with
you to date. I am trying to obtain more info, but the Law's walls are up and I
am having a hard time climbing over them. As I obtain more information I will
update this site.
BIRTH INFO:
SUSPECTED CHAIN OF CUSTODY OF ADOPTEE AFTER BIRTH:
Bson was
taken at birth from Tampa to Ocala, FL to the CHS Office and after 6 weeks of
living in the "CHS nursery" was placed with adoptive parents according to CHS.
Not sure of final adoption date. Adoptive parents at time of birth must have
lived "somewhere in north Florida" due to CHS policies at the time.
OTHER INFO FROM CHS:
CHS verbally told me (and your father)
that the adoptive parents were both professionals living in the surrounding area
(counties surrounding Ocala, FL). They said that the adoptive parents planned on
adopting a little girl when you were about 3 or 4 years old. CHS also said that
your adoptive parents were closely matched to your father and me as far as
ethnic background, hair color, etc., although I am not positive this is
true...they may have just been placating us. You may have grown up either in or
near Ocala; maybe even Gainesville or somewhere in northern Florida. Of course,
they could have taken you anywhere after the adoption and I would never have
known.
BMOM INFO:
Birthmother stayed in the Salvation Army Unwed
Mother's Home in Tampa, FL on Lake Ellen until 2 weeks after birth. I have
medium brown straight hair, blue/grey eyes, medium olive skin that tans well,
and a good complexion. I am 5'2.5" and 110 lbs. (Members of my family almost all
have blue eyes except for your Aunt Susan who has green eyes.) You have my long
fingers, my mouth-shape, and my eyebrows. I am very musically inclined (as is
your whole birthfamily including your father). I love nature, animals, and
mankind; love making everyone happy and solving problems, and I have a very even
temperament as does all my family. I was in love with your father and was 15 at
the time of your birth and in High School. I was born in 1951.
BDAD INFO:
Your father is about 5'11", 165 lbs, dark brown
thick straight hair, and has light brown/hazel eyes (his family also has dark
brown eyes and blue eyes). Your father also has medium olive skin that tans well
and good bone structure. Your father is also very musically inclined, athletic,
very handsome, and has a very good sense of humor. He is definitely a people
person and enjoys spreading joy. He was also in love with me at the time of my
pregnancy and thereafter, and was very supportive of me when I was in the Unwed
Mothers Home. Your father was 24 at the time, had not yet finished college, and
was a part-time musician. Your father was born in
1942.
ADDITIONAL SITE LINKS FOR MY SON AND OTHER TRIAD
MEMBERS
Below are some additional site links for my son...and
a Link to my Email address.
GUESTBOOK INFO: For Triad Members I have included 3
Guestbooks/Registries. Please sign the appropriate Guestbook as each one has a
specific purpose. Sign more than one if appropriate.
Links to
Some of Your Birthfamily's Web Sites
Click on this link and you will find
the path to a few of your Birthfamily's web sites. They all have missed you
through the years. You will find sites created by your Uncle Robert, your Cousin
Lisabeth, and your Uncle Sammy. There will be more family links in the future
and we hope one day you will add a site too.
GUESTBOOK
1---For Salvation Army Home Bmoms or SA Bmom Triad/Family Members
Only
Please use GUESTBOOK 2 or 3 if you are not a SA Maternity Home Bmom
or SA Bmom's Adoptee, friend or family member. GUESTBOOK 1 is reserved to help
SA Maternity Home Bmoms locate each other again and their birthchildren. SA
Adoptees and SA Bmom's friends and family helping may also sign this Guestbook.
GUESTBOOK
2---For All Children's Home Society (CHS) Clients or Affiliates
Only!
Please sign Guestbook 1 or 3 if you are not a CHS client or
affiliate. Guestbook 2 is reserved for CHS clients, Adoptees, Triad Members,
family, and also friends helping CHS clients.
GUESTBOOK
3 (NOT WORKING)---For All Triad Members, Friends, and Visitors of This Site
This
Guestbook is for Everyone! Please post any info that will help you. If you are a
SA Home Bmom, also sign Guestbook 1, dedicated to you. If you are a CHS client,
also sign Guestbook 2 and share your info.
Page Currently Under Construction
Last Updated: 08-05-01